Monday, November 29, 2010

Set Kasab Free

Please click the link http://www.in.com/setkasabfree/ from in.com (a network 18 website) before reading the note below.
The page is created to provide instant justice (insaaf) to 26/11 convict Ajmal Kasab. The website wants him to be hanged or be freed. The site claims that India is spending Rupees 85 Lakh a day on Ajmal's security and therefore it feels that it is better idea to either leave him or hang him. It might be reasonable up to this point but the pages after this display vulgar ways to mobilise people.

Especially the PLAY section has options like:
I can understand the public outcry but for a media group (like network 18) behaving in such a irresponsible manner is painful. I have my sympathies for the families of those who died but the death of Ajmal Kasab will not solve any purpose. We still have a very long way to go into the investigation and complete trail of the case.
Beside this there is no international humanitarian law that allows anyone to humiliate anyone by literally or virtually spitting on him or hanging him or making fun with anything like these. It is for us, the youth of the nation to decide if we want to be categorized as a responsible or an irresponsible nation.

I strongly believe this is grotesque way of misusing public emotion to make profit. I don't know why modern India is becoming so arrogant, why we don't understand that one ill can't kill the other. Any state and/or its pillars (including Media) can not act irresponsibly under any circumstances.
To me there seems to be two reason behind the campaign either it does not understand the sensitivity of the case or it does not want whole conspiracy to be exposed.
I fail to understand - Why we place the picture of Gandhi on the wall when we have forgotten all that he taught us.
9 December 2010
Read the claims of the Ajmal's defense lawyers in Bombay High Court. Also there are various stories that are in news these days.

Kasab didn’t kill Karkare, look at cops’ movement on 26/11: Defence - Indian Express

Kasab did not kill Karkare, say his lawyers - The Times of India

If in.com is correct in its campaign then how the mystery of death of Hemant et. al. will unfold, therefore I repeat -
To me there seems to be two reason behind the campaign either it does not understand the sensitivity of the case or it does not want whole conspiracy to be exposed.

Wednesday, November 24, 2010

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Saturday, October 2, 2010

Eliza's First Birthday


30th September 2010 was my daughter’s (Eliza) first birthday, since the morning I was very excited as the first birthday is always special. All the day I was planning for the evening and was expecting a gift from Lucknow for my sweet daughter, where the Lucknow bench of Allahabad High Court was pronouncing the judgment on Ayodhya title dispute. Being an Indian Muslim I was not too ambitious therefore simply expected a fair judgment if not a decree. I also wanted to show my Kashmiri wife that it is still a good idea to believe in the India, and none but the Law is the saviors.

When the judgment was actually announced I was numb and concerned. The first thought that came to my mind was 'How will I respond to my wife?’ Kashmiris have almost lost their faith in Indian State and have always been arguing against my faith in the state. This judgment will transfer even more arsenals into my kitchen and for next few weeks I will be left with no option but to defend myself on the dinning table.

The second thought that crossed my mind was 'Why our ancestors stayed in India after the assassination of Gandhi?'. The migration continued for almost two decades after Gandhiji’s assassination, therefore they had enough time to introspect and decide. I don’t know what made them to stick to their decision that they took in 1947 AD. There would have been some good reason for the stay but I will never know the reason as it was decided by my grand father who died 9 years before I was born. But for me it is indifferent to stay on either side of the Radcliff line as conditions are the same.

Lastly, I wondered, 'Whether we should still show our faith in the Indian judiciary?' I can only say I hope so. I don't have clear answers to the above questions but I am desperately searching for answers, as I believe my daughter deserves to know the answers someday.

What I am in search of are - Why court have not provided any legitimate reasons, proved by evidences to announce the judgment. How can a court announce an important judgment based on mythological believes and not on facts and evidences. When was the court pleaded to divide the land or decided about the birth place. I don't know much about Law but I definitely know that the courts need evidences to decide a plea.

This re-conciliatory/political judgment is like endorsing the act of demolition and succumbing to fear of the violent reactions from either party if denied with the disputed land. If the madam justice was blind then how did she anticipate the repercussions of the judgment? Another disturbing signal is coming from those who are endorsing the judgment for sake of peace. But knowingly or unknowingly they are shifting the Rights of 90s to the Center in 2010. This movement of reference point is alarming, as it might take India towards the deeper rifts.

I am forced to think why there is no judgment on the Babri demolition but judgment on Babri land dispute, no judgment on Mumbai riots but on the Mumbai blast, no action on the Sri Krishna and Liberahan Commissions' reports, the list of denied justices is getting longer every day. This converges me to think that when ever it is the time to give justice to Muslims it is delayed or reversed. I don't know if it is meager coincidence or deliberate attempt.

I am still clinging to my faith in the judicial system and I am hoping that the Apex court will not deny us that which is our right. The only thing that we would be interested is that the court up holds the rule of Law, i.e. if it decides on the basis of facts and evidence or hysteria and myth. And in doing so if they decide against the Muslim I will definitely welcome the judgment.

I don't want my daughter to hear about her first birthday with her mother's prospective. But I want her to believe what her father and her ancestors have believed since 1947 that India is governed by LAW.

It is published in TWOCIRCLE.NET

Wednesday, August 25, 2010

Kashmir Conflict –Through esthe eyes of Indian Muslims


This article was published in Rising Kashmir based on mine and Khalid's interview on 24 August 2010.

Nasrun-Min-Ullah-Mir
New Delhi, August24: He is smart, he is sparkling, he is youthful, and loves to wear clothes from United Colors of Benetton – Khalid Mussana in many ways is the face of young educated Muslims living in urban India. But this 'cool' image could be disguising: sometimes sipping tea with his beloved friends from Aligarh Muslim University in posh New Friends Colony in South Delhi, Khalid discusses the plight of Indian Muslims.

His anguish makes me sob as he remembers what happened to his friends from Azamgarh district of Uttar Pradesh in 2008 who, like him, came to the national capital for a better future, but destiny made them the victim of alleged fake encounters of Delhi Police.
Kashmir may not be at top of his agenda, but Khalid does share an understanding about the issue. “I fully believe it’s more an identity struggle rather than religious; if not, I would not have felt the race issue with some of my friends.”
Khalid is a product of AMU, where he befriended many Kashmiris during his varsity years and, after coming to Delhi, he shared the housing with few. This regular exposure developed a perception that Kashmiris consider themselves ‘a finer race’ over Muslims from the rest of India. For Khalid, there is a profound cultural divide between Kashmiri and Indian Muslims, which to him goes deep into the history.
Islam came to the sub-continent, including Kashmir, on same cord of Sufism.
However, Khalid got a fresh look to his reservation when he visited Kashmir a few months back in the backdrop of attending the wedding of a friend and felt very generous with Kashmiri hospitality. This visit made him understand the Kashmir Conflict in a new light.
“I have realized one thing after seeing the CRPF at every nook and corner of Kashmir valley: if any government fails to bring a free and peaceful space for its citizens, it has no right to claim that the people belong to it. Problem is with political chessboard that engulfs the lives of hundreds of youth – police and army are just puppets.”
Reciting the couplet of Sir Mohammad Iqbal, in which the great Islamic poet refers the whole World as one nation for Muslim brotherhood, Khalid’s friend Yasir Taiyab, who works in Dubai and is married to a Kashmiri girl, relates Kashmir struggle purely to identity which, according to him, has nothing to do with religion.
“Islam does not promote the concept of nationalism. In Islam there are only two nations, Muslims and Non-Muslims. Thus to associate Jihad and Islam with Kashmir is baseless,” Taiyab said.
This nuptial bond has exposed Taiyab to Kashmir more directly than most of the Indian Muslims, but still as an Indian citizen, Taiyab does not support the cause of autonomy or complete independence of Kashmir. Taiyab articulates his views actively over social networking site Facebook, where he discourses and puts forth his observations. Sometimes the debate stretches for days as fumed arguments buzz the walls of social networking web portal. However, he supports the demilitarization and wants an immediate end to human rights violation in the region.
For Taiyab, Muslim society has suffered a lot during the Partition, in which thousands of people died in riots, majority of them Muslims. For Taiyab, the event in history has put his community on the backfoot but he sees a better future in guys like himself and Khalid and somewhere down the line believes that Kashmir’s aspiration for independence will hurt Muslims in India.
“At this juncture, when the Muslim community is expecting a ray of hope, we cannot support a lingual minority (incidentally Muslim) to push the entire community into the vain,” Taiyab said.

Wednesday, July 28, 2010

Muslim hain hum, watan sara jahan hamara....

Nasrun Mir, One of my Kashmiri journalist friend is doing a feature on perception of young Indian Muslims about Kashmir Conflict. He sent me two questions (below in Italic) to answer. I would like to share my responses with you and would like to know your views on the same.

Can you relate to Kashmiri youth?

Yes, being married in Kashmir I am obviously related to Kashmiri youth. But if this question is political then I only support the cause to cease the human rights violations and demilitarization. I support the nonpartisan implementation of laws and accountability at all levels. But I do not support the cause of autonomy or complete independence as Muslim Indian.

Do you feel as a Muslim that Kashmiri struggle is for their identity and has nothing to do with religion?

I strongly feel that Kashmiri struggle is for Kashmiri Identity and has nothing to do with religion. Islam does not promote the concept of Nationalism. In Islam there are only two nations Muslim and Non-Muslim. Thus to associate Jihad and Islam with Kashmir issue is baseless. I am sad to express that majority of Kashmiri Muslims are engaged in Shirk and Bidat. My preference as Muslim would be to produce better Muslims in Kashmir than Muslim Kashmiri state.

Another common observation in J&K is the differences in Jammu, Kashmir and Laddakh regions. The people in valley give an inferior eye to the people of the other two regions neglecting the fact that Muslims constitute good percentage in Jammu. Kashmiri's say that their culture and language are different thus the two communities are poles apart. I agree, but freedom/autonomy through referendum will need their votes. A few districts of the valley can not over rule the views of the other two regions. Although the possibility is less but if India goes for the referendum, then I don’t feel that the isolated Kashmir will have numbers to put forth their demands.

We, the Muslim Indian did not choose to migrate to Pakistan. We faced the all the burn of the great divide, all the vengeance was directed towards us. An environment was created to make us feel that we were responsible for the divide and this propaganda made it easier for the anti Muslim forces to pushes us toward the backwardness. At this juncture when Muslim community is expecting a ray of hope, we can not support a lingual minority (unfortunately Muslim) to push the entire community into the vain once again.

Cheen o arab hamara, hindustan hamara
muslim hain hum, watan sara jahan hamara...

Allama Iqbal.

Tuesday, July 27, 2010

Boss's Biz Wiz

1. In consulting biz:
Produce Quality
Take care of client,
Take care of staff.

2. Rules of Success:
Rule 13: When put in charge take charge
Rule 14: Do what is right what makes sense
Rule 15: Never sell your soul.

3. Three key to success:
Key 1 - Follow up,
Key 2 - Follow up,
Key 3 - Follow Up.

he said if you remember the AIM, follow the RULES and keep the KEY - Money will follow you.

Every day we learn something in our lives. But these 17 months with him were great learning experience and a pleasure to work. Apart from the above wisdom there were several other lessons that I like:

4. Run Towards the Roar,
5. Never commit more than you can deliver,
6. It never ends unless it is the end,
7. If you speak the truth you don't need to remember.

I want to write a full series on each of these conclusions that he made on several occasions in our project. I personally admired the concept of Sustainability and Flexibility in American business model, so these two concept will come amalgamated with the above wisdom.

I hope, I will get enough time to write this series. I also hope you guys will enjoy reading it...COMING SOON

Thursday, July 15, 2010

Abbu ke naam...

Usse haath mein lete hi,
Uska chehra dekhte hi,
Uske Galon ko chute hi,
Uske Kano mein azAAn dete hi
ek aisa ehsaas sa hua
jaise sabse azeez cheez ho meri
Meri beti!!!
In chand palo ne
Zindagi ka har waraq mera
guzre barson ka har nazara
yaad dila diya ho jaise...

Abbu ki awAaz ka woh pehla ehsaas
Unki surkh ankon ka woh khauff
Unki ungliyon ke sahare mera chalna,
Unka mujhe har roz parhana,
Mujhe aligarh pahuchana,
Mujhe har shaam phone karna,
Meri bimari mein rathon ko na sona,
Meri mohabbat se unka aiteraaz hona,
Meri shadi se unka inkaar hona,
Mera unse narAaz hona,
Unko iska malAal hona,
Phir meri shadi karawanA,
Aur eliza ka paida hona.

Itna waqt laga mujhe
Yeh ehsaas hone mein
Bache nahi samjh sakte
Maa-baap ka bachon se pyAar

Aaj mujhe ahsaas to hai
par mushkil abbhi saath hai
aise dorahe par khara hoon
Jahan Eliza ke niklate dAnt hain
wahin Abbu ke girte dAnt hain
Jahan Eliza ke chalne ka intezaar hai
wahin Abbu ko sahare se chalane ka afsoos
kabhi Eliza ki tooti baaton ka matlab khojta hoon
kabhi Abbu ke larkharate lafzon ko sochta hoon...

Aye Khuda !!!!!
Yeh tera kaisa nizaam hai
Ek haath mein khushi deta hai
Dusre mein gham
Kya yeh tera tariqa tha
Mujhe ehsaas dilane ka
Ki tu hi malik hai
yeh Ghum bhi tera hai
yeh Khushi bhi teri hai
Hum bhi tere hain
Kayanath bhi teri hai...

(Eliza - my 9 months old daughter)

Saturday, July 10, 2010

Haven or Hell ?


Being married in Kashmir I got a chance to meet the people of the valley closer than other Indians. My perspective has definitely changed after my visits to Kashmir. Recent political developments in Kashmir are disturbing but the way both state and union governments have responded are even more disheartening because...

Neglecting the fact that naxals are killing Jawans, Indian government has avoided using Army against them, arguing that they are our people (Indian). Contrarily, in Kashmir India is deploying army and killing stone pelters. Are these protesters killing any one? We need army to control protester in Kashmir while we don't need them for the Maoists in red Jungles. If Kashmiri's are not Indian then how can Kashmir be India's?

For last few days media has been promoting audio tapes of separatist leaders plotting and financing these protests. Their involvement is subject of investigation but the real question is why does the Kashmiri youth respond to their calls. The youth is responding because of the deep resentment against ignorant Indian state.

Being an Indian, it is indeed unpleasant to hear anti-India slogans but I will prefer to be honest Indian than unjust Indian. I would like my country to listen to the voice of Kashmir and address their issues with a big and open heart. I want history to remember our India as a Real Democracy than a Fake one.

Sunday, June 13, 2010

Rajneeti


Today I got the chance to watch the movie; it is a creatively plotted film. Some view it as modern day depiction of great Hindu epic 'Mahabharat', while others watch it as Bollywood's version of 'Godfather'. It is indeed true that the characters resemble the both. Contrary to all the views, me 'The Insatiable' sees it as a tragic love story. I see it as a film that depicts the contemporary Love that is 'Love for Success'. This new love is embedded in almost every heart of modern society.

All the characters of the film are depicted in grey shade. The hero too has grey shades, unlike typical filmy hero with white character wining over the villain with all blacks. I don’t know if it was true in the historical epic but it is very true in our society. Where grey is become more acceptable and achievements are becoming the only parameter to measure the success, where victors write the history. This new love for winning the power, position, money, fame etc is diminishing the white methods of achievements.

Irrespective of our education, our class, our caste, our industry or which ever strata we belong to, we have the some intensity of love to be a victor. This intense love of ours is taking our hero towards the greyer shades. This success of darker shade is engulfing the utopian 'Love for Love', which was righteousness of method, whiteness of character and the truth of our hero. This new race for victory, for sake of victory is cancerous.

Truly, Cinema is the mirror of society. Prakash Jha's (director) mirror in not only reflective but refractive, which depicts the future in history. He creatively highlights the path on which our society is heading, has the trait of cancer. Of course the victors will write the history but do we know there is a world beyond victory. A world that is driven by the truthfulness of method and means. The power we achieve is surely important but not more than the path that we choose to achieve the power.

I understand you will find my views idealistic and impractical. I still believe the driving force of our society should be method based and not result based. Amongst all the Grey characters, the director shows a ray of hope. The two beautiful women shown as the example of extreme white characters. These mothers are our hope as they know that beyond Life lies the Death.

I am optimistic, and YOU….?

Friday, May 21, 2010

Branding the Waste or Waste Branding



The intangible sum of a product's attribute: its name, packing, and price, its history, its reputation, and the way it's advertised. - David Ogilvy's definition of Branding.

Last weekend I visited Marina Mall in Abu Dhabi as soon as I crossed the last signal I saw 5 Volkswagen Beetles painted green with Center of Waste Management (Center) logo and a few messages pasted on them. Presently being associated with Center and my previous experience in Ad and PR impact evaluation sector, I was obviously attracted to it. I parked my car beside the beetles and got down looking for someone who could explain to me the message of the campaign. Unfortunately I could not find anyone.

I took a few photographs of the parked cars that bore the Toll Free Contact Number of the Center, it's logo and the ubiquitous 3Rs – Reduce, Reuse and Recycle. Upon entering the Mall I found the two pillars at the entrance with multimedia screens flashing the 3Rs and the toll free number. Towards the right I found a canopy painted in the Center’s colours with same messages. The canopy was well designed and three glass bins showing the different types of recyclable waste. Though, the most attractive feature of the canopy was the beautiful lady at counter.


When I asked her about the program I was presented with a small glossy screen printed brochure explaining the evergreen 3Rs. She also said it's about the Reduce, Reuse and Recycle. Beside this she didn’t have any inkling about the program. I moved further and found all the screens in the Mall were flashing the Center’s green colors.

The Center’s presence can be felt across the emirate on road side billboards, shopping malls, radio station, internet sites, newspapers and other media. Almost every time the same message, Toll Free Number, Center logo and 3Rs. The Center is trying to reach out to the public and promote itself as a brand. It is indeed a grand attempt but the question is, is it worth the effort?

Using brand guru Ogilvy's definition as litmus for the above effort, I fail to understand the motive of campaign and the idea of branding the Center. Brand building is a phenomenon where a product undergoes vairous steps of brand strategy. These strategic steps gradually build a brand over a long period of time. The question that arises here is 'Does the Center need branding?, if yes, then how?' Ideally speaking, a government entity does not require branding or promotion in its own country. But if it wishes to brand itself, then, the following five steps would help develop the brand strategy.

1. Product:

Promotion is essentially done for a product. The promotional campaigns are either initiated pre launch or during the launch or after the launching of a product. Though, in Center's case we are not selling a product, but an intangible idea which is to create awareness about Antilittering, Reduce, Reuse, Recycle etc. This can also be considered as our base products.

Thus, the campaign should be designed to create awareness about the product. Awareness can be created by communicating with people, through ads, promos etc but the best way is to interact with people. Public interaction is the most illustrative way to educate people of their responsibilities towards the environment. A creatively designed awareness program, will build a stronger bond with people rather than simply pasted posters. The Center will only emerge as a brand, if it is successful in selling its ideas by creating awareness over a period of time.

Identifying the products (Antilittering, Reuse, Reduce and Recycle) helps to define the time line of product launch (awareness campaign). To increase the level of awareness and stay connected with the public for a longer period of time the promotion shall move at a slow but steady pace. For example; by promoting the Toll Free number without any antilittering message shows we are branding ourselves as an on-call maid service, where, if ‘A’ litters then ‘B’ can be called to clear the litter. Thus the message should be clear and creative enough to carve its place in the spectators mind.

Another example of an incongruent launch is the promotion of recycling where the Center is promoting recycling but it does not have the infrastructure to support the program i.e. promotion without a product. In the three neighborhoods where the recycling program is being currently carried out, the Contractor does not have specialized equipment to collect the recyclables and the collection are performed manually.

Unless the Center builds sufficient infrastructure, it can not promote recycling. The Center's toll free number currently receives a lot of calls regarding recycling; this implies that the public is interested in the program and is asking about the initiative. This excitement and enthusiasm expressed by the public cannot be utilized because there is no program in place, This is conveing a wrong message, that can erode the brand that the Center is trying so hard to build. Beside this the infrastructure to utilize the collected recyclables is almost non existent, which is also a clear case of “promotion without a product” or Reverse Branding.

2. Quality of Service:

The Center was established with a specific goal in mind; to place the emirate of Abu Dhabi among the five cleanest cities in the world. This objective of the Center not only includes Cleanliness in its literal terms but also recycling through waste utilization, waste diversion and reducing carbon emission to list a few. One of the aims of the Center was to bring a host of best practices in waste management sector and create a sustainable waste management system for the emirate. Thus the promotional program should also follow the same high standards that were used at time of the formation of the Center.

The awareness program should also be in sync with internal programs. For instance, all the brochures of the campaign are screen printed in color on glossy paper. The stationary that Center uses is printed on recycled paper but has vulgar use to green color on the back side. The mascot standing in the central hall of the Center building in made of plastic are a few examples of non alignment of the operational and awareness programs. Unless I quit smoking I can't convince my son to avoid smoking. Unless we set an example ourselves we cannot ask others to follow us.

3. Mission:

'Working towards a sustainable environment' is the mission statement of the Center. Mission statements play an important role in defining and branding an organization. Every product and staff of the organization, need to live the mission statement. A very visible irony of the mission can be seen in the smoking area on the right side of the main entrance of the Center's building. Where, numerous cigarette buts are found scattered all over the floor although an ashtray bin with Center logo is placed there. When the staff does not live the mission how can they convince the public for anti-littering? This expresses the lack of motivating force within the organization. It is very important for the leaders of the organization to connect with staff and encourage them to live the mission. After all, charity begins at home.

4. Market:

Market segmentation and classification is more often used in the corporate market place. In the Center's case our market includes the truck driver waiting to pass the Saudi Border for days, laborers living in the camps in deserts, poor people hanging out in the parks on the road side on Friday evening and of course the people of the middle class. But most of the promotional programs are launched in shopping malls and other elite urban neighborhoods. The amount of litter generated on the borders by the long lines of the truck is far greater than what is produced in the malls.

Understanding the sources and causes will help us to classify our target market segments and audience better. The awareness programs needs be tailored for each market segment, if one segment needs flashy billboard other might need enforcement. Thus an all inclusive program that reaches each segment of the population needs to be launched. Broader the spectra, better the results. Thus investing alone in outdoor media will not create impact on the cleanliness of the emirate.

To reach broader market we need smartly designed and cost effective promotional program. For example the sites selected in Marina Mall are multimedia screens owned by Synaxis media. These sites are very expensive because of the technology and not because of the location. The location of most of the sites has failed to create high viewer ship. This is the reason why most of the time these sites promote Synaxis itself on these locations rather than other brands.

Thus interactive promotional programs in public places like schools, bus stands, malls, labor camps etc will be far better and cost effective option. This interaction will help public to connect and interact with the cause and live it. Outdoor and other media like radio, newspaper, television surely need to be used but, not at the cost of interactive programs. Placement of creatively designed outdoor signs in parks, shopping malls, parking lots etc are cheaper and better options.

5. Build a Character

All of the above traits when delivered to the best of our abilities, create awareness about the product. The awareness will definitely enable us to build a reputation for the organization. This reputation will remind the public about the messages the organization conveys. Having a positive reputation over a period of time will create a history of the organization. This historical legacy of the organization is called BRANDING.

PART- 2 (June 10)

Thanks to Blogspot for making it easier for us to express ourselves. Atleast, a few of my friends can read me and we can discuss it amongst each others. Otherwise, living in a close Arabic society it is indeed not easy to be cynical to the system. While I was writing the above article (Branding the Waste or Waste Branding), Center was planning another big awareness campaign about the Recycling. The event was planned on 5th June 2010 at Marina Mall. I was looking forward to watch the show.


When I visited the venue, I found a nicely planned and spent event. It was an interactive event for school children. Programs such has tambola, painting, crafting etc were organized. Everything thing was neatly done, events were interesting enough to hold the kids and parents for hours. Live telecast was going on the Radio; Electronic and Print Media also covered the event. The promotion part was very well planned, the organizers tried the draw the maximum impact and I feel that they succeeded also in spreading the message.

Next day when I came to office, a lady visited our office inquiring about the contact person for recycling. This was the impact of last night's event; upon talking to her I came to know that her kid was present at the event. She said their residential society also wants to contribute to the Center's call for recycling. She asked about the requirement that their society needs to fulfill and a few other question. I did not know the answers and I knew that nobody else in the building either, as there is no Program (product) ready yet. Only thing that I discovered by visiting the event was yet another example of REVERSE BRANDING.

Sunday, May 16, 2010

Beyond Love

Today again, while I was watching 'Truth Love Cash' on Channel V, I encountered an interesting situation. It interested me more as it gave me an opportunity to think about the material needs of the world and love. In contemporary society it is important to maintain the balance. But the challenge lies in finding the right balancing point and as I saw in the program most of us miss the point. I believe that a thought full write-up will help me, 'the insatiable' to find the balance/satisfaction.

Back to the program, there is a guy Vineet, he is competing with his girlfriend. His girl friend is Muslim and their relationship is not acceptable to their families. When they started playing, Vineet became serious player and got involved seriously while his girlfriend took it lightly. Vineet is an egoist, he takes things seriously when his competitors mock or win. While his girl was trying more to be his sub, this was something that was holding Vineet. The pair fell into a situation where Vineet had two choices either to dump his girlfriend and pair up with another girl to play forth or leave the show.

He chooses the first option and dumps his girlfriend. She was shocked, he tried to explain that it is for the game and we will still be the same after the game but she didn’t look convinced. Anyway, Vineet gets another girl to play, he again starts winning, and then after a few games they again come to similar situation. But this time the new partner of Vineet gets a chance to dump Vineet and choose another guy to play or leave the game her self. It looked obvious that she will dump Vineet as he was not her real life Boyfriend.

Surprisingly, Vineet's partner decides to leave the show and let Vineet play further. Although Vineet won, he looked embarrassed as he ditched his real life girl for the just a game. Now he is getting a chance to win but in charity on some one's grace. The host of show said, "So another meaning of love is SACRIFICE".

I liked the remark as it was said to some one who ditched his girl's happiness to win but here was some one who scarified his win and money to a stranger. This stranger while leaving the show said, "There are relationships other than Love, but every relationship thrives on sacrifices".

I still don’t understand why she chose to quit the show and give the stranger a chance to win. But one thing I surely know now that winning is not all that you wish from life.

Beyond winning lies,
The Love…


NEXT Episode...

When Vineet's new partner quited the show giving all her prize money to Vineet. Vineet got another chance to buy back his girl friend. Interestingly, his real life girl happily rejoined the show as Vineet's new partner. Although their chemistry doesn't show the same bond but they pretended to look the same. Blood started pumping into my (the Insatiable) mind...

Why does it happen, how can she come back to the show after a humiliating departure. You might think that I am taking it too seriously, or it was preplanned or anything beyond my purview. But my pumped mind is forced to believe that - Modernism is shifting the balance towards the MATERIALISM.

But do we know?
Beyond Horizon Lies...The Haven !!!

Tuesday, April 13, 2010

Manzil to (Edited)

Manzil to…
Woh taswur hai !!!
Jise… Humein apne
Jazbon se
Buland Iradon se
Fauladi haathon se
Taraash kar…
Apne jeene-marne ka
Safar tai karte hain !!!

Woh Safar
Jispe hum taa zindagi
Gir pardte
Hilte marte
Chalte to hain !!!
Par inmein …
na Woh jazbein hain
na Woh ettihad hai
Jiski humein darkar hai

Mere taswur ki yeh Manzil
ek bewafaa ashiq ke manind
Muskura kar !!!
chupke se mujhse kehti hai
safar abhi asaan nahi
Manzil kahin pass nahi
Irade abhi buland nahi
Iman abhi pukhta nahi

Arz hai us khuda se
Jisne yeh qayanaat banayi,
kamiyan meri puri karde,
Safar mera asaan karde,
Manzil ka woh taswur mera
Ab tu mukkamal karde !!!
Ab tu mukkamal karde !!!


ياسر بن طيب

Monday, April 12, 2010

Manzil to…

Manzil to…

woh pathar hai !!!

jise…

Himmat ke jazbon se

Iman ki pukhtagi se

Irade ke bulandi se

Taraash kar…

Fauladi haathon ko

Apne jeene ka

Apne marne ka

Safar tai karna hain.!


Woh Safar

Jisse hum taa zindagi

Gir pardte

Hilte marte

Chalte hain !!!

Jinmein …

na alami jazbein hain

na fauladi iradein hain

na quami ettihad hai

na awami himmat hain


Manzil ek bewafaa ashiq ke manind

Muskurati hai

umeed dilate to hai

par mere qareeb ake

chupke se mujhe se kehti hai

safar abhi mukamal nahi

iradon ki bulandi mein

iman ki pukhtagi mein

kamiyan bahut hain

kamiyan bahut hain


Arz hai us khuda se

Jisne qayanat banayi

Safar mera mukamal karde

Safar mera mukamal karde


ياسر بن طيب

woh zindagi hi kya

jiski manzil na ho

.woh manzil hi kya

jo khudgarz ho